How to win in life!
The concept of ‘winning’ is really about how you define it and your perspective on it. You can say you won if you get through a year of work without being sacked. Or you could say you have failed because you did not get a pay rise in that year. To me, it is about making the small wins count.
Winning also often comes from losing. It is the lessons and wisdom gained from losses that lead to wins later. Most famous athletes and entrepreneurs have lost and failed at some point in their careers. It is this learning that has made them successful.
To lose is truly to win. Steve Jobs was FIRED from the company he founded! When he returned to Apple over 10 years later, he built it into the most profitable company on the planet. J K Rowling endured depression, physical and mental abuse, poverty and humiliation. Today, we know her as one of the most successful authors to ever live.
Therefore, winning and losing are the natural cycle in life. It is unrealistic to expect that we will win every time. These unrealistic high expectations can lead to stress, depression and performance anxiety.
Everyone can win. Everyone can also lose. It’s through our experiences that we grow and experience success, which only we can truly define for ourselves.
Being dedicated to a pursuit, trying one’s best and travelling the journey purposefully, can be more meaningful and fulfilling for some than winning public accolades and medals. Hence the meaning of ‘winning’ is unique to everyone.
As long as you are committed to your purpose, both mentally and emotionally, you are better able to invest yourself and immerse your mind to succeed in whatever you choose to do!
If you believe you have failed, or are feeling unfulfilled in life, we can help you by using coaching as a medium, to explore realistic aims, acknowledge small wins and gain a sense of achievement and success in your life.
About me
I feel blessed and fortunate in my life, so I have committed to serving and helping people make positive changes in their lives to help make this world a better place for everyone.
The work that I do, whether it is working 1-2-1 with a client or training a large corporate group or writing books and blogs, is geared towards making a difference and helping people to enjoy joyous, meaningful happy lives.
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